Coat of emotional colours

   

Anyone can do anything with a million dollars. But it takes more than money to make something out of nothing". This quote naturally tells us that we can do some much and execute lots of ideas when we have money.
Dreams and ideas naturally translate to reality when we have money and resources to carry them out.

   Money, companionship, opportunities are usually possible when the mega bucks abounds. Without this then we are talking about life being compared to that of the rag. Poor, ragged, empty and worthless condition. But in the midst off physical and emotional poverty you can metamorphose to another state.

From experience many would tell you that nothing good comes easy. You really need to put great effort into the love nest to make it work. This brings to mind the rags to riches phrase and it takes you from obscurity and emptiness to your hearts desire.

   Yes, we all agree that money is indeed a mean to certain ends but there are so many other factors that must blend together to achieve a successful outcome. If this is not done then the resources that should matter would obviously go down the drain.

  The crux of the matter here is that money on its own cannot move mountains whether for physical, emotional and other ends.

  In Dolly Parons, song, ‘Coat of many colours the lyrics talks about a box rags in the season of her youth. A box of rags naturally suggests a collection of something useless, old. Garbage, something awlful and obviously something many would love to dissociate with.

  Instead of looking at the odds the young girl and her mother decided to make the best out of nothing. Parton’s mother put the rags of many colours to use. Even though every piece was small, her mother sewed the rags together with passion and love. There was no money and her little girl needed something to keep her warm. This naturally would be a time when issues of love and romance would be at the peak.

  This led to the creation of a coat of many colours. Of course, a coat is for comfort, protection and warmth. This basically are the things required in a relationship which can make or mar the relationship.

  Even though the material used was weak and worthless, the maker of the coat reproduced something worthwhile with love. To support this show of motherly love her mother related this to the biblical Joseph’s coat of many colours. Her dream was for the coat to bring her daughter good luck and happiness and she blessed it with a kiss. On her part Little Dolly just couldn’t wait to wear it.

 Even though her friends laughed at her rags, she wore it with great pride.

  “Although we had no money I was rich as I could be in my coat of many colours. So with patches on my britches holes in both my shoes in my coat of many colours I hurried off to school just to find the others laughing I couldn’t understand it for I felt I was rich and I told them of the love my momma sewed in every stitch but they didn’t understand it and tried to make them see that one is only poor only if they choose to be”

  This applies to our emotions too. Most times what we are left with are emotional rags. Things that make us cry each time we look back from here we are coming from and where we finally find ourselves. Instead of having our emotions lined with rich fabrics like lace, silk, cotton, velvet or linen that is sweet to behold, you are overwhelmed with rags that are no longer attractive.

The most important thing you need to forge ahead is not the rags or the lace of emotions. The crucial thing that is going to see you through the affectionate lane is your attitude. You have to develop the right attitude all the time, it would be the only tonic required to make it a successful emotional journey.

  There are different steps to take in order to make your relationship wax stronger no matter the odds that comes your way. First you have to be sure that the feeling you are experiencing is love and that this feelings are mutual. Once this is ascertained then you can move on to the next stage which entails showing love to each other.

  This will help maintain and increase the loving feelings that you have for one another. Unfortunately, it is not everyone who knows how to express such feelings properly. Sometimes, what you think is going to help project your love may just turn out to be a turn-off for the person that you are desperately trying to impress.

   Conversely, not expressing love can also hurt the bond you share with your partner in a terrible way. So if you are trying to work out a successful relationship, then you must be committed to your partner's emotional well-being, even when it isn't easy. This means sharing affection with your partner, through good times and bad, when it's most needed and when it's least expected.

   This task is usually easy when you are the romantic type. Romantic is essential to have at least some of the time. Candles, candlelight, compliments, romantic bubble baths, and romantic dinners are good ideas. So it is wise to try to inject a romance into some of the things you do and how you relate with the your love.